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Thrashing at the End of One’s Leash:
or discovering peace and contribution in 21st century
--© 2010 J.Hamilton www.COREresonance.com 

Recently I had an experience that gave me a great deal of difficulty. It threw me out of a very balanced state and I knew I was frazzled from the experience – something that might take all day or longer to recover. I knew someone in whom I saw a great deal of potential and thus tried to include this person into my business activities. We both looked at how we might work together. But while there was huge potential, there were also huge difficulties because of a staggering inability to communicate. This person is absolutely unable to hear my thoughts or contribute to any meaningful conversation because of the enormous drama in his life.

I find that while there is great potential, often we are unable to contribute anything of value because they are so involved in their problems. This reminds me of an animal on the end of its leash practically going berserk. They have no understanding of their surroundings, no understanding of what they are doing to themselves and certainly no understanding of what they are doing to others. It is as if they fight and react simply for the sake of fighting and reacting. Maybe it is best described by an old song by Carly Simon, something about "suffering was the only thing that made me feel I was alive" "…thought that's just how much it cost to survive."

Now, to be sure, this individual is capable of being gentle, thoughtful, calm, generous and collected, but (she) has an unidentified need to be the center of attention. He has a huge need to control everything (for purposes of safety and defense) to the detriment of any potential that might be expressed. The problem is that I am unable to reason with this person – especially in this state. I am unable to effectively communicate and quickly wear myself out attempting to contribute anything meaningful to the conversation. I find that this individual brings a huge disturbance to my life. (The truth is I react to this person [instead of allow] and thus create a huge disturbance in my life.)

What does "disturbance" mean? If, at the end of a telephone conversation or personal encounter, one is less than uplifted, warmed by the conversation, and calm and collected for going forward into their next moment, the experience is detrimental. If the conversation leaves me worn, frazzled or shocked; if my nervous system is numb or frayed, then I have done myself a huge disservice by being in this person’s presence. If I am unable to find balance in this conversation, I have taken myself into overload and frazzled my own system. And when my system is frazzled, I am unable to be of much good use to myself much less this other person. Worse, I take this frazzled condition into my next moment and the next and it affects the quality of my reality creating, etc.

What to do? 

First, I have to get back to my natural state of calm and receptivity and order. This is sometimes easier said than done and may require a trick or two. Sometimes it is so severe that the trick is go to the movie theater and allow the film to overwhelm (and reset) my state. Unbeknownst to most, alcohol and other variations of medicating offer similar benefits though with substantial side effects. Usually though, stopping to collect one’s self is the answer and can often best be done by simply stopping and loving this person.

We simply reverse the connection and instead we become responsible for the quality of the relationship by sending love to this person. At the same time, we reconnect with ourselves in the most authentic manner possible and as an additional benefit, we reestablish our connection the Cosmos – our natural state, and we truly relax.

This does not mean that we reestablish physical connection with this person, but only that we reground ourselves with regard to this relationship and our own personal self-importance. Interestingly, in reestablishing this loving connection with this person, we reestablish our connection with everything. Must be something we can use here.

Another way, of course, is to stop and meditate. Not on this person, instead we ground ourselves by simply becoming quiet. Did you know that the practice of meditation is actually the practice of nonresistance? Did you know that upon stopping resistance (best done by allowing), our reality creating begins to shift and line up in a whole new different and useful manner? And that with enough nonresistance, our realities truly begin to shift to far more useful outcomes?

Any idea why we sleep? One reason is to discontinue our resistance. Another is because we wear ourselves out with our resistance, reaction, gyrations, and thrashings of day-to-day life! Note: Almost all reality creating on this planet is a product of resistance and reaction or strategizing one's experiences and survival in one manner or another!

If you can relate to this process, you can help yourself and the person you are in this exchange with because this exchange is an opportunity to discover your saneness. If you are the more conscious of the two; if you no longer choose to contribute to the friction and the distortion, the problem cannot continue and you can give this other person a rest as well. By simply moving to loving and nonresistance, not only do you reset yourself, you reset the other person because it takes two to disagree! Without your contribution, issues automatically lessen. The solution to this age-old problem is as old as the teaching itself. Love your neighbor as yourself.

With a game plan as above we can contribute to making the world a better place because once we move into a loving space, our contribution becomes exponential. Once we again blend with the “peace that knows no bounds,” we have reestablished a very large connection with ourselves and each other. Once we have established this connection, once we have aligned with what is true, our capacity to contribute peace allows us to mesh with an order that knows no bounds.

As Abraham of Abraham-Hicks says, "One person connected to Source is more powerful than one million who are not." And, as Dr. David Hawkins and his Map of Consciousness indicate: one person at 700 balances out 70 million people below 200. This is the source of exponential contribution!

If you could use a bit of help with these ideas or recognize yourself as the person thrashing at the end of your leash (leash is a metaphor for someone in a state of constant reaction because they do not understanding their surroundings), or the person reacting to the reaction : ), I have a few ideas for you.

Curriculum Enlightenmenship
The place to begin is with a session with Aazura and Divine Union. The cost of this session is $175 and can be done by telephone or in person. The telephone is recommended because you are in a familiar environment (your desk, easy chair, etc.). The telephone quiets your senses and focus down to the task at hand and eliminates the many distractions and extraneous sensations that travel might bring. Your attention is not diverted by the new surroundings, the need to go to the bathroom because you arrived late, or forgot your water bottle, or don’t like the chair, or the smells, etc. You begin in an environment of your own and you begin by relaxing prior to beginning your session. You take the time to prepare for something very special. Go inside and relax.

Divine Union
Divine Union, the combine essences of Yeshua and Magdalene, is a very loving and compassionate experience, and unlike anything you have likely ever experienced. Divine Union offers insight and a huge “reset” that allows your nervous system to experience an imprint that will resonate with you for the rest of your life. This session is jokingly referred to as a meat tenderizer because, as an initial session it forever changes your outlook about yourself and your possibilities. You have been exposed to something that is ancient, ever powerful and indelible. It reminds you who you are at a very deep level and of your truest goals and states of success.

To be sure, this is not about programming or reprogramming. Instead, it is about touching and recognizing your true nature as only can be done by ancient friends, the divine essence of your truest brother and sister, Yeshua and Magdalene. The resonance of this experience resets your innermost knowing about your true security and sense of wellness. Alignment with what is true is the beginning of Survival and Success in the 21st Century. It reframes your life and brings ancient perspective back to the forefront. This session will be recorded for you and is about 75 minutes long.

Awareness Effect™
As you discover that a resonant pathway has been forged by this encounter, you have the option to begin to remove "the blocks to the awareness of love’s presence" – your natural state. Awareness Effect™ is a technology developed by Aazura and Divine Union designed to clear habits and patterns that limit your capacity to be receptive to your greater good; patterns and beliefs that limit your connection with Source. After all, you are a child of God and only fear (the limitations of your mind) keep you from your natural state of connection with Source, or “Creator,” as Divine Union likes to say.

If you resonate with the suggestions so far, we recommend that you continue with a second session of Awareness Effect™ and a final session with Divine Union interspersed with coaching from J.Hamilton and VisionariesLab. There are layers of beliefs that can be removed very effectively to put you on your path to reveal the true you. It is in the dissolving of false beliefs that engender defensive posturing and survival issues based on a sense of separation from the whole that we begin to heal and find our true self again. It is in this wholeness that we begin to relax and mesh with our surroundings like, somewhere inside of you, you always knew you could.

This is a very safe practice under the guidance of an immense amount of intelligence and insight. For those of you who are well along the path, the capacity to unleash your underlying potential is far closer to the surface and far more available than ever before. In fact, this is our primary client – one who recognizes their nature but has difficulty expressing their potential with the existing tools at hand. Through Divine Union, Awareness Effect™ and consulting, resonance with the Cosmos becomes far more available.

We are, in part, a product of our surroundings though we came in innocent and pure. It is through our immersion into the "man's-made world" that we lost our connection. It is as if something has been forgotten or laid aside. We have become distorted by the earthly experience of fight and flight and reaction and resistance and duality brought about by this environment, the "gifts" of our blood-line lineage (DNA) and our own errors.

This is the true source of karma, the absorption of the man's made world of illusion and dysfunction. We simply need to reevaluate our choices, reevaluate our surroundings, reevaluate who we are and what we choose to resonate with more carefully. This first phase of Curriculum Enlightenmenship can help.

CORE Resonance
After the above recommended sessions and coaching, you may wish to investigate going to another level. The next step involves a physical quieting of the brain and nervous system because your nervous system is the means by which you actually communicate with God. Better said, your nervous system is the means by which God communicates with you, because, in fact, you are a "receiver." As the most sophisticated nervous system on the planet, you are first and foremost a throughput mechanism through which Innate Intelligence expresses itself into this dimension. It becomes your function to clear your nervous system of resistance and trauma and beliefs of separation such that Innate Intelligence can flow to you and through you. You become the New Human by giving up resistance and instead flowing love and allowing.
Hint: We become exponentially more contributive in this manner.

The New Human is a divine human because the New Human has, with intentionality, attention and nonresistance, forged a partnership with the Cosmos; with God, with Innate Intelligence, or Source or Creator or Spirit – however you may wish to call "Her." For if we ever thought that we might accomplish our potential on our own, with only our brain and mind, our education and attendant degrees awarded by universities, the luck of the draw, or our inheritance or blood line lineage (DNA), we are very likely to be mistaken. How do we know this?

We simply need to review our surroundings. Nature is all-encompassing. It is huge in its scale of order and symmetry and capacity to mesh millions and billions of systems into one over-all experience that operates in extraordinary camaraderie with everything else! Image plugging into a system of success that is so vast that everything is included! Everything! And then imagine trying to put something together on your own or even manage your small part.

If you look around at the "man's-made" world, you will see a great deal of beauty and accomplishment but you will also see an extraordinary amount of dysfunction, devastation, disorder, greed, manipulation and the merest levels of survival mentality. Human beings operate from their minds; they operate on their own outside of the scale of true order, and while they create symphonies and beautiful bridges, they are extraordinarily dysfunctional. Extraordinarily!

If it wasn't so painful, debilitating and the source of so much agony and suffering, it would be funny.

We can discuss the duality of beauty and dysfunction and we can discuss who we truly are as a species but suffice to say: we are a product of Innate Intelligence expressing itself. By flowing though the most sophisticated nervous system on this planet for which self-awareness is our potential result, we have come to exist. We are a new type of "beingness" generated by awareness. We are far more than the bodies that facilitate our "existence." But while we relate to the body as our home, with its associated limitations, thought forms and “being less than we can be,” we can do the immediate next best thing by partnering with something eminently more successful.

To partner with Innate Intelligence at this juncture in our life is the most powerful means by which we can contribute to and greet the 21st Century and all of its promise. And, make the world a better place while we are at it.

Namasté